Random Thoughts

Yes, I crossed the Golden Jubilee of my life. 26 years with my mother and 30+ years with my family. 

Oh! Why I am using the term 'my family'! 

 Am I establishing my separation with my mother as she is no-more? 

What is this?  When getting married, every woman starts separating from the mother. How selfish I am? I start scolding myself. 

'Never more of such feeling' - I told my heart.

Oh no ... I convince my mind - I think of my mother - think... think.... think .... 

Mm! it is not the sense of detachment, but the sense of security that I experienced with my mother made me claim that this as my family. Yes, I feel the same security which, I felt with my mother. Then it means... my mother is in my family. 

What is this 'my' and what is the 'other.'?  M(y)other - Is it correct?

There is no 'otherness' as 'myness' is not 'minusing' (my word) from others rather it is binding us strongly.  

Yes, that is why our elders say  "love all as you love yourself'"

Hence, my 'my-feeling' will not misguide me towards selfishness, but will make me generous. 

I will render every one of my actions and reactions with care ... as, I see myself in all and everywhere.

Am I confusing! Read again and again and experience it in yourself and you will find what I mean to you and me!

Spread the love as that of the mother to all and forget the word 'other'!

Have a nice time!