Yes, I crossed the Golden Jubilee of my life. 26 years with my
mother and 30+ years with my family.
Oh! Why I am using the term 'my family'!
Am I establishing my separation with my mother as she is
no-more?
What is this? When getting married, every woman starts
separating from the mother. How selfish I am? I start scolding myself.
'Never more of such feeling' - I told my heart.
Oh no ... I convince my mind - I think of my mother - think... think.... think ....
Mm! it is not
the sense of detachment, but the sense of security that I experienced with my
mother made me claim that this as my family. Yes, I feel the same security which, I felt with my mother. Then it means... my mother
is in my family.
What is this 'my' and what is the 'other.'? M(y)other - Is it correct?
There is no 'otherness' as 'myness' is not 'minusing' (my word) from others rather it is binding us strongly.
Yes, that is why our elders say "love all as you love
yourself'"
Hence, my 'my-feeling' will not misguide me towards selfishness,
but will make me generous.
I will render every one of my actions
and reactions with care ... as, I see myself in all and everywhere.
Am I confusing! Read again and again and experience it in yourself
and you will find what I mean to you and me!
Spread the love as that of the mother to all and forget the word 'other'!
Have a nice time!
